I have been wanting to write about this for awhile but just have not felt I could just yet. Many of you know I frequent different birth chat boards for my kids, well on my June 2006 board there is a family that has suffered so much loss this year and I think about them daily. Allison and her husband Marc had a baby girl in March, she passed away at 5 days old from SIDS. This was
devastating as it should be but as a family they healed. Allison got pregnant again recently and is due with a baby girl next spring. Unfortunately, tragedy struck again. About a month ago, Marc (30 yrs old) died in his sleep one night.
So I am just floating
thru each day trying to figure out how this online Mom friend of mine can function having lost not only a baby this year but also her husband. I just can't wrap my mind around how she just does not fall apart.
I know she is staying strong for her kids and will have his memory with her all the time and see his face in her kids face. It just makes me realize more and more how fragile life is.
So every night, kiss your husband and your kids, tell them you love them each and every day!!